How to deal with a wicked mother in law

A lot of women at some point have felt victimized or not good enough for their partners because of their mother in law. In fact, the effect that some of these ladies have on their "child’s" relationship could destroy it. Not surprisingly, they could also be judgmental and interfere in the couple’s decisions.

What is the best way to deal with your mother in law? Let’s find out!

Understand her

Sometimes people’s actions are a reflection of their reality. Take some time to truly analyze where she’s coming from. For example, if what she’s doing and/ or saying is from a place of love. In life, people experience traumas that could later on affect their relationships with others.

Be genuine

As much as a person has a negative opinion towards someone else, it could be changed. Allow for her to see that you are someone who loves and cares for her son above all. Keep in mind that this won’t happen within a matter of weeks, it could take months or even years. This is when you have to analyze if the love you feel for him is stronger than her wicked actions.

Take a step back

Consider that if what you are doing is taking a negative toll with the in law. Maybe, there could be someone else involved stirring the situation. At times, it’s better to remain silent, as silence could never be misquoted.

Last, but not least ―don’t have any expectations. There are people who never fully connect, but this doesn’t mean that you have to sacrifice your happiness. Instead know that you are with your partner not with his family or in such instance with his mom.

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